你的朋友没进入准备打架的状态，为你打起来不见得占便宜。 但他可站在更强势的立场为你说话。比如说， 他走过来问道“Ｗｈａｔ ｉｓ ｔｈｅ ｍｅａｎｉｎｇ？ ” 可以客气的说：What she mean‘s can you leave her alone？ She is not comfortable that you keep starring at her. 话虽客气，但讲话时盯的他的眼说！！！语气要冷。 理对气势够，不需要让对方太多的。
你的脾气跟我很像若是我的女友遇到这种事，那个外劳是准备要进厂了的。不过，我知道我女友肯定会拉开我同样的情况，觉得你的朋友做得对。当局者迷，旁观者清。在外头打架可不是闹着玩的，随时会有生命危险因为street fight不会有人跟你说公平，1 on 1或者2 on 2.你什么时候看过street fight是空手bare hand的？一般都是笠家伙的～这样的情况，你和友人再好打也只是4只手而且又不知道那个地方是不是还有其他的同党，万一吹鸡跑出10来个外劳，那时就真的是等着被煮 现在的人很聪明，打架都不会先主动动手，因为先动手者错在先。除非他先动手，你可以趁机大声喊非礼，引起其他旁边喝茶人的注意。我相信不帮手也会站起来看看什么事。不过，还是那句：“最好就是不要打架” 记着，你不是叶问，不能打十个。就算是叶问也是电影里的叶问，现实生活的话，我相信他也会选择多一事不如少一事。
hi~brother:
thanx for ur advise.
in normal situation ,girls dress up beautiful cloth for respecting the social relationship.i cannt wear the big size T-SHIRT n sliper juz walk along with friends in shopping mall or some classic places.some small girls who even 5yrd get raped,what do u think?people rob the gold shop bcoz of the nice display?
could i use your last sentence to explain it?
here is my opinion.
Sorry I dont have my chinese writer in office.
1, Things happen in this sexual provoking world and it is much complicated then you think.
I am sorry you feel violated.
But think about it , if today it is some handsome young top male movie star staring at you how will you react?
We human are just terrible.
what you against is not the person but animal instinct of human nature,
So, Victor is right, it is best to keep a distance with anyone and dress conservative to not get into the situation.
2, if you like to express yourself on the situation, Make use of your cell phone, call police next time you are in a situation instead of react yourself. Just keep low and call police. when the police comes tell the police what happen that way, you express yourself in a safe zone. never communicate with those people alone or even with your friends.
3, Walk away safely is better then anything.
Ok to get humiliated and walk away safely. and in fact, I prefer to get humiliate and the other party express their angle and I walk away looks stupid. no big deal because those stuffs doesnt make me lost anything.
It is a war to win; not a war to fight for emotional discharge and regret later.
Let me tell you a story,
About 30 years ago, I was in Penang's Kyokushin Kai club, same instructor with Victor. So, among a few school brothers who always fight to KO, I have a big school brother who is a good fighter from Indonesia. This big brother has a younger brother who is also a street figther type. So, the young brother use to beat up lots of people in his town to show how good a fighter he is, up to the point, street people have fear of him. However, there is a problem he got with this one guy who he constantly beat up.
So, at one saturday night, when this younger brother was filling his motor cycle tank, he got ambus by the guy who he constantly beat up who hated him so much. and he died. tHe brother who is my school brother was looking to revenge of his brother's death but never find that person.
I was told Later that person was short and kill by president's special force due to terrorizing the area.
See, the issue could be very serious if not handle properly.
In my opinion, dont have to waste your life.
learning martial art is just for fun for most, it never really a useful tool.
and confrontation if not deal properly could be real serious.
Best Regards
for me , Outside is too noisy and complicated.
I stay here in the past 20+ past years to be peace, happy , investigate power generation, and walk the path not to o many walk...in silence.
夜深, 人静, 小雨, 微风, 单独倾听之意会
thanx a lot,my friend!
thanx for ur sharing this for us,for me...i have never thought in that way..i dont think that serious,really...
my father was used to fight with robberies and thieves when i was in childhood time...my eyes saw.i learnt and i always realized that must help people whom were facing in difficulties...special for men~~men shall guard women...guard us...i choose the boyfriend the 1st condition must save me in any situations...
today...i carefully read every word from you.i need to reformet my brand system.i think over.
that song is very nice...that place is in china...real sign is like what you watch from the video.
发表于 9-8-2010 03:28 PM
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若是我的女友遇到这种事，那个外劳是准备要进厂了的。不过，我知道我女友肯定会拉开我
同样的情况，觉得你的朋友做得对。当局者迷，旁观者清。在外头打架可不是闹着玩的，随时会有生命危险
因为street fight不会有人跟你说公平，1 on 1或者2 on 2.你什么时候看过street fight是空手bare hand的？一般都是笠家伙的～这样的情况，你和友人再好打也只是4只手
而且又不知道那个地方是不是还有其他的同党，万一吹鸡跑出10来个外劳，那时就真的是等着被煮
。。不过，还是老话一句。。要小心。。
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