Sometimes you really feel like you want to cry your heart out.
Sometimes you really feel like no one understands you.
You wanted to share your feelings but no one can relate to you.
You hope for someone to show up and help but no one comes to you.
You can help other easily but no one knows how to help you.
The hurt inside is beyond words.
You voice had never been heard.
They tell you what to eat, what to do, where to go, what to think but they never care how you feel and what you really need.
They don't care you who you really are and it hurts.
They do whatever they like to you without considering your feelings.
May be this is your destiny.
You can't change your destiny.
But you can change your attitude.
So you get to choose, whether you want to continue to be the victim or you take control of your own life?
Life is all about your attitude.
My Way by Frank Sinatra
And now, the end is near;
现在,我的末日将近,
And so I face the final curtain.
面临人生的最后落幕,
My friend, I'll make it clear,
我的朋友,我要说个清楚,
I'll state my case, of which I'm certain.
向你讲述我的人生之路。
I've lived a life that's full.
我活过一个充实的人生,
I've traveled each and every highway;
我经历过每一段路途,
And more, much more I did,
而更重要的是,
I did it my way.
我用自己的方式。
Regrets, I've had a few;
遗憾,也有一些吧,
But then again, too few to mention.
算不上多,不值一提。
I did what I had to do
我做了该做的一切,
And saw it through without exemption.
洞悉世事,不求赦免。
I planned each charted course;
我规划过每一段人生,
Each careful step along the by way,
每一个细微的脚步,
and more, much more than this,
而更重要的是,
I did it my way.
我用自己的方式。
Yes, there were times, I'm sure you knew
是的,你知道有些时候,
When I bit off more than I could chew.
我曾背负不能承受之重,
But through it all, when there was doubt,
但自始至终,就算充满疑惑,
I ate it up and spit it out.
我还是克服困难战胜了它。
I faced it all and I stood tall;
我挺直身躯,勇敢面对,
And did it my way.
用我自己的方式。
I’ve loved, I’ve laughed and cried.
我曾经爱过,笑过,哭过,
I’ve had my fill; my share of losing.
我曾经满足,也曾经失落,
And now, as tears subside,
现在,当泪水慢慢沉淀,
I find it all so amusing.
我发现原来可以一笑置之。
To think I did all that;
想到我所做过的一切,
And may I say - not in a shy way,
我可以说,毫不羞愧地说,
No, oh no not me,
我没有虚度,
I did it my way.
我用自己的方式。
For what is a man, what has he got?
男人究竟是什么,拥有什么?
If not himself, then he has naught.
除了自己,我们一无所有。
To say the things he truly feels;
说出心里最真实的感受,
And not the words of one who kneels.
而不是那些身不由己的话。
The record shows I took the blows -
时间证明,我经受住了磨难,
And did it my way!
用我自己的方式!
Yes, it was my way.
没错,这就是我的方式。
Start from today onwards, I don't have to be perfect.
I can be REAL, I can be weak, I can be hurt, I can be WRONG, I can be human!
I am sick of the need of being PERFECT.
You projected all your shame, guilt and sin on me.
I am no longer willing to be your scapegoat.
I can't be perfect, I am only HUMAN~
Please don't look at me like a machine.
Please don't expect me not to do any mistakes.
Please don't scream at me when I do wrong.
I am just human, please treat me like a human.
I do not need to be perfect.
I have the right to do mistakes.
I have the right to be imperfect.
I only have to be natural.
That is all.
And one more thing,
I have the right to be me.
I am sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you.