(急) 目前戴孝着49天以内可以看明年结婚吉日?

lie

heavenguy 发表于 4-3-2015 05:17 PM
不是一样吗？

不一样的，内公比较亲的，外公是妈妈边的没有像内公那么亲。。

heavenguy

lie 发表于 5-3-2015 02:17 AM
其实想问下，请问什么是 “ 对年 ”  ？

我是一知半解的对年something like 往生人的日历算法吧。。。应该吧。

heavenguy

ohchin 发表于 4-3-2015 08:56 PM
thanks.. yup.. if according to old style, they say either 100 days or 3 years.. but my relative sa ...

那你家人是跟对年(一年后)直接做三年来算了。

heavenguy

lie 发表于 5-3-2015 02:18 AM
不一样的，内公比较亲的，外公是妈妈边的没有像内公那么亲。。

我明白这意思，内外公也懂。

power666

pohpiah 发表于 4-3-2015 05:47 PM
红纸也不能这么早拿的。
目前还没到49天，不懂可不可以以看日子，还是49天过后才可以哦？

我的情况是这样。去世的是我的婆婆。
我是在49 天后才去看日子。
看了，我有跟他们交代我在带孝。所以，等脱孝后才去领红纸。

我是带一年，对年直接做三年。做完后，师傅有问谁是今年结婚？（我是刚刚才脱孝），他就给我一样东西，我没开来看是什么，然后说，如果内家有任何人在这一年内结婚，就要把那样东西给要结婚的人。

我觉得现在很少带三年。而且都是一年后直接做三年，也就代表你带孝三年了。

你的问题主要问可不可以看日子。我的答案，我不知道可不可以，但我是有去看，只是红字留在看日子的师傅那里，等脱了孝才去拿。

ohchin

heavenguy 发表于 5-3-2015 07:51 AM
那你家人是跟对年(一年后)直接做三年来算了。

yup should be. still considering. duno wan wait one year or 3 years. cz ady paid restaurant deposit and others deposits...

pohpiah

power666 发表于 5-3-2015 11:05 AM
我的情况是这样。去世的是我的婆婆。
我是在49 天后才去看日子。
看了，我有跟他们交代我在带孝。所以 ...

谢谢你的分享！
我现在的问题是可不可以在49内看日子，而且对年是明年的1月(January)，这样说1月过后才能拿红纸？
我们是想在3月结婚，1月过后才能拿红纸，那来得及安排安床和其他过大礼送聘金的事吗？

heavenguy

ohchin 发表于 5-3-2015 04:17 PM
yup should be. still considering. duno wan wait one year or 3 years. cz ady paid restaurant deposi ...

then just go ahead marry...no need to wait

ohchin

heavenguy 发表于 5-3-2015 05:00 PM
then just go ahead marry...no need to wait

100 days is impossible for my case as we were all very saddened by this sudden incident. we need some time to heal the pain. will wait for one year later maybe.. thanks for ur opinion as m lost in this case..

heavenguy

ohchin 发表于 5-3-2015 06:02 PM
100 days is impossible for my case as we were all very saddened by this sudden incident. we need s ...

dont be too sad...人死不能复生。

pohpiah

ohchin 发表于 5-3-2015 06:02 PM
100 days is impossible for my case as we were all very saddened by this sudden incident. we need s ...

100days really cant do anything..too rush!
And photo shooting..restaurant also hard to book..

ohchin

pohpiah 发表于 6-3-2015 12:35 PM
100days really cant do anything..too rush!
And photo shooting..restaurant also hard to book..

yup! very true! supposed had photoshoot last few days ago. but cancelled due to this sudden incident. yea true. they need around 3 months to process the album as well. restaurant oso maybe full house.

pohpiah

ohchin 发表于 6-3-2015 12:39 PM
yup! very true! supposed had photoshoot last few days ago. but cancelled due to this sudden incide ...

yes..restaurant mostly is full if suddenly wan to booking..
they say my ablum must use 6months just can done all..

Loveshino

我父亲过世的时候，我也是对年就脱孝，但是我依然三年后才结婚。
其实打算在100天，一年后，三年后结婚都可以。
只要双方家长ok，帮你们选日子的师傅就会知道怎么做。
如果还不放心可以问一下替你们处理白事的殡葬人员，他们也会知道。